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Al Anon


My "outer purpose" for the past 15 years has been to help Dianne take care of herself and have some happiness in life.  I think i will return to the homeless shelter where i volunteered for two years before she got too diabled for me to want to leave for long enough to do a stint.  But I felt a need for my spiritual life to take some form beyond private meditation and blogging.  The chances of finding a Taoist community close seem dim, and i am still exploring the possibility of a Friends Meeting (There is one in  Meridian that does not call itself a church, so i am hopeful)  There is also a Buddhist community that uses the term "Zen." which is promising.  And, of course, there is always Al Anon)

It occurred to me a few hours ago to check out Al Anon meetings.  There was one tonight less than a half mile away.  So i went.  There were 15 people, including 4 men (counting me).  There seemed tp be a nice mix of "adult children." parents, and spouses of alcoholics.  I was, by far, the oldest person there though there appeared to be a man in his sixties and a woman in her seventies.  It was a comfortable place to be.  My hearing was pretty bad (audiologist appointment is Monday!) and the meeting was a  little too structured for my taste.  There was some good sharing.  I will "keep coming back."  This was my first meeting in 27 years.

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( 14 comments — Leave a comment )
boomfault
Jun. 3rd, 2016 05:28 am (UTC)
This is so great!
bobby1933
Jun. 3rd, 2016 05:42 am (UTC)
Yes, i think it is. Thank you.
pondhopper
Jun. 3rd, 2016 11:09 am (UTC)
This is GOOD! You will find your outer purpose again and you've made a good start!
bobby1933
Jun. 3rd, 2016 11:03 pm (UTC)
Thank you, Donna
amaebi
Jun. 3rd, 2016 03:36 pm (UTC)
Good idea!
bobby1933
Jun. 3rd, 2016 11:03 pm (UTC)
Yeah, i thought so,
cathy_edgett
Jun. 3rd, 2016 10:16 pm (UTC)
Wonderful! I'm happy you're reaching out and finding community.
bobby1933
Jun. 3rd, 2016 11:10 pm (UTC)
Thank you.

Actually, my autistically informed perspective on "reaching out" and "community" is rather strange. I don't resonate with either of those concepts, but i suppose they will be the consequence of
my actions.
vaporw
Jun. 4th, 2016 02:07 pm (UTC)
I don't have a Taoist community near here. I have friends and it helps me/us to be involved with some the Buddhist people though.
bobby1933
Jun. 4th, 2016 02:56 pm (UTC)
Thank you.
Of course friends are the best.
and i will renew some friendships
and help establish new ones
and i will see what the local Buddhist communities are like.
abendstille
Jun. 6th, 2016 11:10 am (UTC)
I think it's great that you go out and look for like-minded people and communities that you feel welcomed, Bobby
bobby1933
Jun. 6th, 2016 06:19 pm (UTC)
Thank you, Mia
I wish there were a "12 steps for everybody who wants them" group.
reginaterrae
Jun. 8th, 2016 10:14 am (UTC)

Very cool. I look forward to hearing more about how it is for you this time around. I too have often wished for a 12-steps-for-everyone program.


Love
R

bobby1933
Jun. 8th, 2016 02:22 pm (UTC)
I will try to keep you informed. <3
The closed thing i have found to a "universal" 12 step program is Emotions Anonymous. There are no meetings in Ada County (where there are 28 Al Anon meetings each week) There is a meeting in Nampa, which is only 12 miles away. I plan to attend next week. It is the only EA meeting in Idaho, and the only one i could find between Portland, Oregon and Salt Lake City
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